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Attracting Compliance With NLP

NLP is a relatively new branch of psychology that naturally and easily creates rapport between conversational partners. While the subject is vast and can cover literally millions of pages of books, the following 3 NLP tips can quickly help you create an instant connection with anyone:

1) Use Positive NLP Presuppositions- Say "I expect you will be early" instead of "Don't be late!" The latter focuses on negative outcomes and often influences events to that outcome.

2) Use NLP-style mirroring and matching- By creating similarity thru body language and tonality, people find it easier to relate and trust you. Making friends becomes easier.

3) Always have a predetermined and focused outcome- If you know what you want, you'll easily chart a path to it and know whether what you're doing is working. If it isn't, adjust accordingly.

NLP is a powerful way to attract new friends and bring more success into your life. Hone your skills at it!