When we are younger it seems that it is very easy to date and we do not need to get too many dating tips from other people at that time.  However at the same time when we are younger our friends are always there to guide us through these major things like dating and picking up members of the other sex.  It is also true that even though we are very aware of being able to get dating tips from our friends, we also celebrate a relationship that lasts more than four weeks with great enthusiasm. 

Basically finding dating tips when we get older seems to be a much harder thing to do than when we are younger.  When we are younger we really do have our friends to say do not call him again or to tell us to change what we are wearing because it does not look right.  Our friends tell us many things that we can use as dating tips and it does not even seem to be dating tips it is just your friend keeping you in check and not doing anything out of the ordinary for a teenage kid.  But when we get older those friends are not usually there to help you decide what to wear anymore.

If you think about it in your mind and you picture a bunch of teenage girls or boys standing around laughing and giggling about what to wear and what not to wear it seems normal.  Or if you think of a bunch of twenty something guys telling their buddy to stop calling the new girl he just met an hour after he met her, it seems normal.  But when you get to be in your late thirties and forties and older there is not really a bunch of friends telling you to do anything anymore and your dating advice is gone. 

Not only is your dating advice gone but you may also forget the fact that there are indeed some dating rules that must be followed.  When we are young we know all of the dating rules by heart and we would never go beyond any of the dating rules. However when we are older those dating rules are in a world that is long gone and we just do not pay any attention to them anymore.  So for all of those people who are older and do not have a bunch of friends around you to remind you of the dating rule and to give you dating advice here are some short reminders for you.

First of all always be punctual.  You never really want to keep a date waiting.  If they wait too long they will typically leave and not really think you are worth anything to have kept them waiting for such a long time.  if you are going to be late at least have the decency to call them and let them know you are running behind.  Remember to not constantly call your date after the event.  If you keep calling them you will only seem desperate and there are only a small amount of people that are actually attracted to desperate people. Another thing to remember is that if you are on a date do not check out someone else when you are with them.  That is just plain rude and your date may not want to see you again after that.  These are just some of the basic rules of dating and they should be followed strictly.  If you are lucky enough to be older and still have a bunch of friends around you that can offer you dating advice and help you remember the rules of dating then you should listen to them.