Dating Tips For Men and Women

How To Flirt With Women

"Women Who Flirt But Then Only Want To Be Friends"

"Women Who Flirt But Then Only Want To Be Friends"

 
 A common question that I get from my readers
is, "Marius, how come a lot of women like to flirt with
me but then tell me they just want to be friends when
I try to make a move?"

 There are two possibilities.

 One is that the woman was only flirting for fun and was not actually interested. Although
flirting will usually occur when there is attraction
(hence why the flirt-test is useful), flirting ALONE
does not equal attraction. This is why the flirt-test
requires you to keep advancing with your flirting, so
that you will know if a woman is really interested or
just stringing you along.

Should You Mix Approaching With Flirting?

“Should You Mix Approaching With Flirting?”

A “noob” mistake that I see some of my readers
do all the time is that they try to combine approachingwomen with flirting and teasing before they are ready
to do so.

When you’re playing basketball, you learn to
dribble and you learn to shoot. Both are important
skills to have and do work together eventually, but
at the beginning, they need to be practiced separately
until you are ready to do them simultaneously.

Dating is no different. If you worry about
approaching women when you should be practicing
your flirting, it’s going to kill your success. And
if you worry about how you should be flirting with
a woman before you approach her, it’s going to lower
your confidence and make yourself stumble.

That’s why you should practice approaching
women and flirting with them separately until they
both become second nature to you.

Start by flirt with every woman you come
across casually. Just let go of your expectations
and be playful. Forget about the results and just
do it. Flirt with all the females within your social
circle. (If you don’t have one, it’s time to get
one!)

Once you can do that, then start approaching
strangers (not just women, but men as well) and
small-talk them. Focus on meeting people and
developing your natural curiosity towards things and
people in general.

Finally, combine the two together and flirt
with the women you approach. Use some of the more
advanced flirting routines I’ve taught you such
as the “Name Tease Flirting Routine” I sent you
the other day.

I promise you’ll have more success if you
break things down and practice before putting everything
back together again!

For more dating tips, read my dating advice blog at:

http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/

Thanks,
Marius Panzarella

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What To Talk About With Women

Last time we talked about what to talk about with a girlfriend. Today
we’re going to talk about what you can talk about
with a woman you’ve just met.

First of all, talking to a woman is
a lot like talking to people in general. In fact,
if you’re good at talking to strangers, you
shouldn’t have any problem starting conversations
with women.

When you talk to the woman, try to have
a natural curiosity towards her and ask her
questions about what they do, what their hobbies
are, and their special interests. You can also
talk about movies, music, current events, and
television shows.

Once you’ve found a mutual interest,
narrow the topic and go deeper. For example,
if it happens that both of you like a certain
kind of music, then start talking about the
bands you both like.

The key here is to “make friends”.

Once you’re built initial rapport,
then deepen the rapport by asking some thought-
provoking questions, such as, “If you had
all the money in the world, what would you
do with it?”

For more dating and relationship tips,
visit my dating blog at:

http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/

- Marius Panzarella

10 Ways To Tease A Woman While Making Out With Her

“10 Ways To Tease A Woman While Making Out”

Don't know how to flirt with women or how to tease women? Here are 10 ways to tease a woman while making out with her.

1) Touch her close to her breasts, but not directly on them.

2) Touch her where her clothes meet her skin.

3) Run your hands up and down her spine.

4) Play with her boobs but stay away from her nipples.

5) Trail your kisses closer her closer to her lips but pullback
just before you get to her mouth.

6) Smell and smell her neck…and nothing else.

7) Tug onto her hair sporadically.

8) Breathe faster and faster into her ears.

9) Masturbate her through her underwear.

10) Massage her ass and linger a finger close to her butt hole.
But don’t actually do anything.

For tips on how to take these techniques further
so that you can take it all the way to the bedroom, sign
up for my free dating blog at:

http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/

- Marius Panzarella

Dating Body Language For Attracting Women

“Dating Body Language For Attracting Women”

Here’s a little tip on how to stand when you
meet a woman.

When you first start talking to a woman, try
to stand a bit on the side and look over your shoulder
to talk to her. (Not too much - just a little!)

Then every time she says something interesting,
turn your body just a tiny bit, until you’re finally
facing her in an open position.

This will accomplish two things.

First of all, it will make you seem less
intrusive and more of a challenge. You’re not invading
her space. Instead, you’re qualifying her by turning
towards her ONLY when she says something that is worthy
of your attention.

Secondly, by “warming up” to her slowly,
you’re also inducing mirroring. As a result, she will
most likely warm up to your instead. You may even see
her turning her own body to open up to you.

By the way, you can also adapt this tip for
sitting. Let’s say you’re sitting at a bar. Just
start talking to the woman next to you by looking over
your shoulder, and slowly turn towards her as the
conversation becomes more interesting!

For more body language tips, check out
my dating blog at:

http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/

Thanks,
Marius

How To Ask Out A Woman

How To Approach Women With The Right Energy State

How To Approach Women With The Right Energy State

Here is a tip that you should remember
when you approach a woman: You need to try to
match her energy state.

Okay…let me give you an example…

Let’s say you’re at a club and a girl
is dancing on the floor. If you stay at the
back and don’t have the same “energy”, she
probably won’t notice you.

Here’s another example. Let’s say
a bunch of guys are drunk on the street. If
you’re drunk too, then you may cheer them on
or give them high-fives because you all share
the same state. But if you’re sober,
you’re probably going to think they’re crazy.
They may also think you’re a snob for giving
them dirty looks and even try to start a fight.

Bottom line…if two people react to
the same way to a situation or environment, then
there’s going to be natural rapport. An upbeat
party girl showing her moves on the dance floor
will usually want a guy who’s having fun too.
The shy girl who’s hiding in the back will
probably get scared if a guy approaches her
with “too much energy.” The closer you match
a woman’s energy state, the higher your chances
of making a successful approach!

For more tips on how to approach women, go to my how to approach women guide at: http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/how-to-approach-women-by-checking-them-out/

Thanks,
Marius Panzarella

How To Flirt On The Internet

Here is a flirting trick that works very
well over Instant Messaging and texting.

Send something that is blatantly flirty
or outrageous, and then before the woman can answer,
follow up with a SECOND message and change topics.

Here’s the logic behind this flirting technique…

When you’re chatting with a woman, if you
just “play it safe” and never take any risks by flirting
with her, then you’re not going to build any attraction.
Sooner or later, the woman will probably start seeing
you as a friend. At the same time, if you send a woman
a really flirty message that she does not quite know
how to respond to, she may just “keep it open in a
window” and wait for you to say something else. And
if you wait awhile and send her another message to
keep the conversation going after this awkward
silence, both of you may think something is wrong.
You may see it as rejection and feel discouraged, and
she may start believing that you “should” be rejected.

On the other hand, if you send her a second message
to change topics AS SOON AS you have sent her a flirty or
over-the-top message, then she has a new conversation anchor
that she can use to keep the conversation going no
matter what her reaction to your first message is. The
second message will take away the seriousness of the
first message and she will be free to laugh at or respond
to your joke without worry.

With this technique, you can “slip in” a lot of
blatantly over-the-top flirty messages in a chat conversation
that might otherwise have offended a woman or scared her away.
Using this technique, you can just keep going and going
with your flirting - so that her attraction for you will keep
on growing and growing!

For more flirting techniques, visit my how to flirt guide at:

http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/category/datingtips/flirting/

Thanks,
Marius Panzarella

9 Signs It’s Time To End A Relationship

1) Everybody around you is telling you your girlfriend
is not for you:

Yes, I know it’s you who’s in love with your girlfriend,
not them. But if everybody thinks there’s something wrong with
your girlfriend, perhaps they’re right. Don’t forget that third
party opinions are usually more objective than yours.

2) Your girlfriend is a bit crazy/unstable or has major
character flaws.

Remember…you don’t need any more emotional baggage in
your life.

3) You’re trying too hard to change yourself for your girlfriend:

I’m sorry, but if you’re constantly trying to change
yourself for your girlfriend, maybe you’re just not the right person
for her.

4) You’re trying too hard to make your girlfriend care for you:

If you spend every moment obsessing over your girlfriend
to keep her interested, you’re definitely not the right person for her.

5) You’re always arguing with your girlfriend:

Dating should be fun. So if you spent more time arguing with
your girlfriend than having fun when you were dating, maybe it’s
better to move on.

6) You feel you’ve lowered your standards for your girlfriend:

If you think you’re “too good” for a woman, then raise your
bar and find someone better.

8) You feel like it’s becoming a chore to take care of your
girlfriend but you do not want to break up because you do not
want to hurt her.

Guess what? You will eventually break up with her if you
feel this way. Better to do it now.

9) You’re just with her because you’re afraid of being
single again.

So you would rather be in a bad relationship? Not a
valid excuse.

Find a woman you’re actually IN LOVE with instead!

As a “Smarter Dater”, you should not and MUST not
settle for anything less.

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How To Talk To Women

Don't know how to talk to women?

Here’s a nice conversation technique that I’ve invented “by accident”.

A few years ago, I was trying to play Cupid and get a
couple of my buddies hooked up with the women they liked. I
found out what women they had a crush on and approached these
women myself with the intention of getting to know them and
finding out information that my friends could use to attract
them.

However, the plan backfired on me…BIG TIME. Instead
of helping my friends get these women…I ended up “stealing”
almost every single one of them myself by accident.

For example, once I got into a small chat with a nice
lady that I knew my friend liked. A 15-minute chat soon turned
into a 6-hour conversation and a short relationship. (I still
feel bad about this today…even though I DID bow out and help
my friend get her in the end.)

This happened over and over…until I said, “This has
got to stop…”, took a step back, and saw what I was doing wrong.
(Or “right”, I guess.)

I was:

1) Trying to find out about their innermost dreams,
ambitions and the feelings attached to them. (Remember…my
original intention was to pass on this information to my
buddies.)

2) Flirting with them in different ways to see what
they responded to best. (So my buddies could do the same
thing.)

3) Not acting interested in them myself. Instead, I
kept saying good things about my friends with the intention of
hooking them up. (Now I know that I was merely being a challenge
to these women by doing this.)

It turned out by developing what I now call a “genuine
curiosity” about these women, I was attracting them to me like
fruit flies. (I was the grapefruit, haha!)

I have since adapted this technique for my personal
use. Here is how YOU can use it today:

Next time you’re talking to a woman, I want you to
develop the SAME genuine curiosity about them. Pretend you’re
trying to hook up a buddy and don’t expect anything for yourself.
(I guess you could almost call this a variation of the
“Dissociation Technique” from the Smart Dating Course.)

Be naturally curious about them and be playful about it…
like how you would act if you were talking to your best friend’s
girlfriend for him.

Have that sly smile on your face as you push around for
her buttons so that you can help your “imaginary friend” attract
her.

If you hit a wall, no worries - you’re just doing it for
a buddy. Simply try something else and see if you get a better
reaction this time.

Go try this now. Trust me, it really works.

For more killer dating tips and flirting techniques, visit my dating tips website at: http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/datingarticles/Just think of all the success you’ll have with women
when you finally know how to build attraction!

- Marius Panzarella