Pick Up Artist or Natural?
2007-Dec-3 - Why cant you attract women?
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Attracting women may be very hard for some men and many men choose to not do anything at all about it. There are many ways to attract women and they are very easy to do. Attracting women does not have a secret recipe or a secret way that only the alpha males know and hand down from generation to generation, the modern man will know this once he tries a few times to attract a woman on his own.
For the men who have issues when it comes to attracting women you must ask yourself a few questions. First of all is it all women that you can not imagine going to talk to or just certain women that you believe are out of your “league”. If the answer to this question is that you only want to talk to and try to attract average looking women there are a few things to say on this. First of all that “average” looking woman may be the best thing that has ever happened to you so you may not want to judge her or eliminate her because she is less than what society says is gorgeous, that is just a thought for you. Second many gorgeous women are single and many men do not even approach them because they believe the women to be out of their league. So the gorgeous women are usually alone. Approach these women and talk with them, you will see that it is easy to attract women and if you talk to a woman that you think is way off your level than it may give you the confidence to speak and to attract women that are below gorgeous. After a conversation or two with the amazingly beautiful woman you may find out that it may not be just looks that you want in a relationship.
Now if that is not your issue and you just have a real problem with attracting any kind of woman at all you should keep reading. Perhaps you just do not have the confidence to attract anyone. Maybe when you go out (if you even go out) that you are giving off a vibe that is sending people away, you must remember that the worst thing that can happen is that she will say she can not talk to you. That is all. The world around you will not crumble down and the universe will not implode. She will just say no that is all. Do not let a few no’s ruin you. There is a woman out there that will say yes. But you may not even be asking her to talk or to dance or to buy her a drink. You may have let the no girls break you down and your confidence is too low by the time you would get to the one that says yes.
If this sounds more like your issue know that you are not alone. Many men have problems with their confidence and the way they attract women. They just need to have more faith in them selves. You have a lot to offer to a woman. Just talking to women and men in a casual conversation is something that will build your confidence. Just walking up and saying hello to a few people may be the thing that makes you feel more comfortable. When you go out one night just focus on that. Just walking up to some people and saying hello with confidence. Use a few conversation starters with random people and then go away. After doing that a few times you will see that it is not that difficult and you can do it. Once you have done that a few times and you feel better about it, try to use the same concept to attract women. Let your confidence free and see what it attracts. Now do not let it get out of hand and send out the cocky vibe just confident and wait to see how many women you attract then.
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2007-Nov-26 - How to seduce a woman
Are you one of those guys that just do not understand the whole process of seducing a woman? Have you never been able to seduce a woman you wanted? Do you feel like less of a man at times because you do not possess the skills that are needed in order to seduce a woman? Well after you read this article that is all about to change. With a few tips on how to seduce a woman you will be able to try again and as long as you grasp these few tips well you very well may succeed the next time you try to seduce a woman.
The first step in seducing a woman is to understand the woman. Now I am not saying you need to understand everything there is to know about a woman, hell she does not even know understand herself all the time, but you must understand a few key points about women in general. One of the most important things to do in order to seduce a woman is to make her feel comfortable.
Making a woman feel comfortable around you is a big thing, now you do not want to make her so comfortable that you slide into the dreaded friend zone but you do want her to feel good about being around you and not scared you are going to stalk her after she leaves the premises. Scaring a woman or freaking her out is a sure way to land yourself a restraining order so do not do it.
Making the woman feel comfortable will allow her to relax around you. She will open up to you. You may not really care about everything she is saying but she will open up none the less and that is a sure sign that she is comfortable. When a woman is stand offish she will not talk to you about anything deep, she will just keep everything right there on the surface and not allow you to get any closer to her at all. But once that zone of her being comfortable around you happens you are oh so very close to seducing her. Think of it like this, if a woman feels like she has to be on her guard with you, you are not get anywhere near her for a bit, but if she feels comfortable around you she will feel like you have made an instant connection.
So how do you do this? You smile, you laugh, you listen to the things she has to say and actually respond back. Do all of these things and then add in just a dash of letting her know you think she is sexy and that is it. That is a sure fire way down the path of seducing a woman. It is an easy recipe right? It really is a very simple concept, the problem is that many make it just too difficult and may have you thinking that there is a ten year course you need to take in order to figure out how to seduce women, not true. You only have to make a woman laugh and feel comfortable in order to seduce her.
The only thing you really have to worry about is letting it dive into the pool of dark and deserted friend zone. This is a place where many end up but no one really wants to be. The way you avoid this dark and dreary place is to make sure you let her know that you think she is sexy. Not in a cheesy 70’s kind of way but in a way that she feels respected. In a way that she also feels attracted to you. This is not hard to do and anyone can do it. These are sure fire ways to seduce a woman, try it next time and see what happens.
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2007-Nov-17 - Discover How To Get A Girlfriend
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Many lonely men out in the world today only want to be involved with someone. They really just want to get a girlfriend. But for many men it is a difficult thing to do and they are not really sure how to go about finding someone for them. Finding a girlfriend can be hard sometimes.
One of the first things you have to remember though is that men and women are distinctly different. They feel different, they think different, they act different, and most importantly the love differently. Women are more apt to want to talk about their feelings and things in the relationship were as men are not usually that way. Now of course there are situations where that is not always the case. I am not trying to give absolute stereotypes here but those stereotypes did emerge from somewhere. So always keep in mind that men and women are totally different.
Once that is in your mind you may find it a little easier to find a girlfriend. Another thing to do to find a girlfriend would be to get out in public. You really can not find someone when you are sitting at home all day and night, every day of the week. No one is going to come knocking on your day and say “hey there can I be your girlfriend?” however if that happens you should totally go for it. Also finding a girlfriend may be difficult if every time you are going out you go to a bar with the boys. Men travel in packs and it may be hard to get a girl when you are in “pack” mode. Men and women always act differently around their friends then they do when they are alone together. You may act quite boorish when you are with your buddies and a woman would never want to be with that guy. But she can see your true nature because of it hiding behind all the testosterone that is spewing from you and your friends. Try to keep it down to one or two buddies when you are going out with hopes of getting a girlfriend. Also going out by your self works great. You can join a gym or some kind of activity where you can meet people.
One thing to remember when you actually do meet someone is to just be your self. Do not act like anyone else. Do not try to be something that you are not. You must always be honest and be your self. If you are a huge dork that plays internet games and likes to build things than be that person, there are many women who find that attractive. If you are a huge jock and love sports than embrace that part of you. There are many women who love those qualities. The point here is to just be you. And let the woman see who you really are. Do not try to impress her with your belongings and what you have, although some women do want to hear this but they tend to be a bit shallow. But if that is the kind of girlfriend you want then list your belongings all you want.
Finding a girlfriend can be difficult for most guys but there is someone out there for everyone and you just have to find her. Taking yourself out of your comfort zone and doing new and exciting things will allow you to meet many new people and maybe in those new people that you are meeting you will find that one special girl that will be your girlfriend. You never really know what each day will hold for you. And remember that women have just as much trouble meeting men that men have meeting women and it is hard for everyone.
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2007-Nov-12 - Learn How To Become A Pick Up Artist
Becoming the pick up artist is not only something that certain males know and hand down from generation to generation in a secret club that only the cool guys are in. Knowing how to be a pick up artist is something that any guy can do and it is rather easy once you figure it out.
When you envision a guy that is known as a pick up artist you may think of some cheesy guy that is out to just get a number and move on to the next woman, but that is not always the case. Yes the number thing is a definite but a man needs to be some kind of pick up artist these days just to break the barrier a woman has up and that is what we are talking about here.
One of the most important things a man can have for himself would be confidence. You can not expect to pick women up if you are stuck over in the dark corner of the club not talking to anyone but your buddies. If you want to start dating, then you have to get out there and mingle with everyone. Men and women both; of course you are looking to talk with the women but the men must know that you are also in the room. Not as a threat to them but on the same level with them. Make your presence known. Do not do it in a cocky kind of way but there is nothing wrong with walking up to a group of people and introducing your self. Shaking a guy’s hand in that group is totally acceptable and you would be acknowledging them instead of making them feel like you are stepping all over their territory. If there is obvious chemistry between the girls and the guys of that group stay for a moment or so and make some small talk and move on to the next people after a “nice meeting you all” to the first group. You are not trying to pick up on some other guy’s girl but you are just meeting people, putting your self out there.
This builds confidence in men and women alike. You might ask how you are going to do that when you are kind of a shy person to begin with and do not really have the social skills to do something like that. Well just remember that you have to start off somewhere. If you think of it as “acting” then it may be easier for you at first to just walk up to people. You are not trying to take every woman you meet home with you, you are just trying to build your confidence up first, taking them home comes later on.
Before you even leave the for the party you need to make sure a few things are done first. You are not going to go out and act confident if you do not feel confident first. You want to make sure that you look good, that always gets some one’s confidence up. If you do not like the way that you look or the style of person you are change it. You have that power. You can change your hair, you can change the way that you dress. Again think of it as acting and you will be able to pull it off. After you build your confidence you will not need to think of it in any other way than what it is. With just the building of your confidence you can soon become the pick up artist that you always wanted to be.
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2007-Nov-4 - Tips To Meet Women
Meeting women is not the easiest thing in the world for most guys. Although there is some guys out there that make it seem like a walk in the park, this just isn’t the case for the average man.
Women are everywhere, there are more of them then there are of us, so it’s not impossible to find them. The most important thing to remember when you want to meet a woman that you noticed across the room, is that you need to believe that you deserve it.
Confidence is the tiebreaker for just about everything in your life. If you don’t have the confidence then why would anyone else have any bit of confidence in you, they won’t. It’s a simple proven fact.
Having no confidence, or not enough of it, is just one thing that will prevent you from meeting a woman and getting her phone number. The other is the lack of being able to start a conversation as well as maintain a good conversation. This is not easy for many men, especially when it comes to talking to a woman that you think is drop dead gorgeous. There are many things that you can do to improve your conversation skills, and we will go over them in just a few minutes.
Don’t get me wrong gaining confidence with women and mastering the art of conversation is not something that is just going to happen. You can’t just say alright I am going to be confident and bam all of a sudden you are filled with all of the confidence in the world. If it happened like that there wouldn’t be any reason for you to be reading this article or any other confidence building or conversation building article at all. It would be nice of course but it’s impossible.
There are many things that go into gaining these two very important characteristics so that you can begin to meet women and actually be able to walk up to them and get their number. But hold on a minute, before you begin to get all excited. This is not going to guarantee you that you will get every single girls number that you walk up to. She could be involved with somebody, or you may not be her type, and the first few times of this happening it may put a bit of a damper on you confidence so it’s important that you are prepared for this. We don’t want you to go backwards, just go forwards.
Okay so let’s get started on improving a few things so that you will have the ability to walk up to that gorgeous woman that you see across the room, and be prepared for just about anything that happens, whether its her giving you her number or not.
Before you can get better at having a conversation with a woman you are going to need to be confident and the best way for this to happen to find it within yourself, from your family and close friends.
Here are some more confidence building techniques that you can begin using.
1. Find a person that you admire for their confidence, and start mimicking them, but still remain you just filled with their confidence.
2. Make a list of things that you have accomplished throughout your life.
3. Appear confident even if you don’t feel like you are, acting can go a long way.
These are just a few techniques that will help you to begin to become much more confidence, and once you have this confidence you will feel more relaxed when you are talking to women. This confidence is going to bring you many things in your life so be prepared for all that comes along with it.
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2007-Oct-27 - Picking Up Woman, Why Is It So Hard To Do?
It’s hard for many guys to just walk up to a girl and try to pick them up. The fear of rejection seems to be the hardest thing to deal with. There are many pick up lines that go through your mind when you are contemplating walking up to a woman and trying to get her number. You think of all the commercials and the television shows that poke fun at the many very silly pick up lines.
No matter what it’s not easy to just walk up to anyone and try to get their number or just trying to talk with them. And the reason for this is because many guys lack confidence.
Have you ever noticed that the guy that always meets all the women doesn’t necessarily have to be the best looking guy, but he is the guy with the most confidence with women and extremely cocky. They are the ones that meet the women. Well there is a good reason for this, and it’s due to the fact that they are not afraid of rejections. They don’t care if they don’t get the girl because they believe that they are better than her anyway.
So if you want to learn how to pick up women then you must learn how to build up your confidence.
Confidence building is not something that you are just going to all of a sudden have. The amount of time that it will take to build your confidence depends on your individual personality. How much do you sweat when you first approach a women? Is it pouring off of you like a waterfall?
There are many ways that you can begin building up your confidence, such as books and even a little help from your friends and family. Uncovering the reasons why you are not confident is always a great place to start. Maybe the fear of rejection is due to a lost love that scared your heart. There are so many different situations that could have happened that caused your confidence to dwindle away. But don’t worry just because your confidence is low doesn’t mean that you are never going to get it back again.
Let’s work on some different ways you can pick up women with your new found confidence.
One of the best things that you can do is just to conquer your fear. Take a friend along with you so that they can give you that push that you need to build up the courage to walk up and start talking to a woman.
Getting over that fear of being rejection is also very important. Talk to a friend that is cocky and pick his brain a little bit. Find out why he doesn’t care about being rejected, and try to get into his head as far as you can. I am not saying that you need to learn how to be cocky, but you need to understand where the confidence comes from. Usually confidence comes with getting over your fear of rejection.
Start talking to as many women as you possibly can, this doesn’t mean that you need to try to pick them up. But it’s a great ways to begin feeling more comfortable talking to women. You will be surprised at how quickly you become more comfortable and at ease. Soon you won’t have to worry about that waterfall coming off of your head when you walk up to a woman that you like.
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2007-Oct-23 - Do you make these pick up line mistakes?
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Trying to meet a woman is sometimes very tough and if you are using those tired old pick up lines then you are only making it that much harder for yourself. You know the one’s that I am talking about.
“Did it hurt when you fell from the sky?”
The only way this type of pick up line will work is if you can say it with a sense of humor. There are so many different pick up lines, and some of them work, some of the wont and other’s might just get you slapped in the face.
So how do you know which ones will do the trick & what are the best pick up lines so you don’t need to be slapped over and over again. There’s a trick to this. Using the pick up lines that offer flattery, such as “How does it feel to be the prettiest girl in the room?”
But the truth is that all of the pick up lines that you can say whether you say it funny or serious don’t always work. And while there is no guarantee that a woman will give you her phone number if you use a pick up line or if you don’t you can certainly start off talking to a beautiful woman without one.
Listen if the woman is absolutely beautiful, how many guys do you think approach her. Probably a lot, and how many of them are using the same tired old beat up pick up lines that you know. Ummm, again a lot. And if you were the second person in the day to use a pick up line on her then there is a much higher probability that you will get slapped or shunned.
There are some secrets to approaching woman and greatly reducing the chance of being rejected, and it’s all in the way that you speak to her. Mastering the art of conversation is the key to unlock many doors for you in the world of dating.
It’s easy to find ways to spark a conversation with a woman, but what do you say after that. You want to leave a lasting impression on her, and Hi how you doing, is not the way to do that. It’s hard for me to just tell you what to say this is why you need to begin discovering how you can become better at talking with woman and even people in generally. The reason why some of those pickup lines work for some guys and not for others is because they know how to use them correctly. And this is due to the fact that they are personable, don’t worry you can learn how to become a much more personable person. You can learn this by building up your confidence.
Being a social person is the magical key to picking up women. Woman can sense if you are shy and nervous, and while they may think it’s cute they are definitely not thinking let me rush and give him my number. You flattered them, and it’s adorable. Is this how you want woman to think of you? I didn’t think so.
So begin becoming more confident, and more sociable and you will be able to easily get the girls number. Listen there is always the possibility of getting rejected, but you need to understand that it’s not the worst thing in the world. It’s not like she is going to shoot you for talking to her, all she will do is walk away and that’s it. So what?
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2007-Oct-15 - Learning How To Become An Alpha Male Is Not Difficult
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Every guy wants to learn how to become an alpha male. And the main reason for this is because women always seem to be attracted to the alpha male in the group. Well there’s good news for you non alpha male’s. It’s not that hard to flip the switch and become an alpha male. There are just a few things that you will need to know to make this transition successful.
So if you want to learn how to become an alpha male then you must continue reading this because I am about to tell you exactly what you need to do to become an alpha male.
One of the main characteristics of an alpha male is the ability to be relaxed in all types of situations, especially around women. There is a way for you to be this relaxed by doing certain techniques to keep you relaxed. Breathing is one of the best ways for you to calm down and gain control, but you must breath through your stomach.
Another very important characteristic of an alpha male is confidence. This is a bit more difficult to conquer, but it’s far from impossible. It’s just going to take a little more time, but once you do this is one of the best traits. Now let me set one thing straight. When I say confident that doesn’t mean cocky. Cocky guys are a bit of a turn off for women. Confidence on the other hand is a complete turn on. While a small bit of cockiness is okay there is still such a fine line that it’s not worth it.
One great way to boost your confidence is by surrounding yourself with people that are confident. Just listening to them talk will help to inspire your confidence within yourself.
Okay there are a few more things that you will need to know before you can become an alpha male. And one of those things is losing that fear of being rejected. Hey listen everybody gets rejected, and there’s no reason why that should stop you from walking up to a girl that you notice and wanting to meet her. If she says no it’s okay. This will come with building your confidence.
I want you to do a little homework and get out there and watch the alpha male in action. There are going to be many different things that you will notice, and you should keep mental note of it all. An alpha male is filled with so much energy, and they will make you laugh even if you have just had the most horrible day of your life. They will have complete control over just about every situation, but it doesn’t feel like they are controlling you, it’s just so subtle.
An alpha male has many pretty amazing qualities, and there is no wonder that women are totally attracted to this type of man. And there is no wonder that you are trying to become what women want. This is not going to be an impossible task for you to accomplish. You just need to take action and begin implementing these small but very important changes into your life and before you know it you will be an alpha male that is completely desired by many women every where that you go. You will be the life of the party, the dependable guy, the guy that will make you laugh when you want to cry and the total relaxed confident guy that gets every bodies respect.
Your hard work is going to pay off and you will not even remember your life as a non alpha male.
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2007-Oct-11 - Dating Advice That Will Actually Work
Dating isn’t the easiest thing in the world, actually it’s probably one of the hardest especially if you are not the type of person that it comes natural to do. So let’s go over some dating advice for a man that will help those of you that have trouble speaking with the opposite sex.
There are many great ways to meet women, and one of the best ways is naturally in the grocery store, and walking in the park. But there are other options that will work great as well, such as online dating sites. The internet helps those of you that have trouble speaking with women and making it much easier for you to accomplish. It’s much easier to be yourself when you are involved an online dating service because there is not going to be any initial contact other then through email or they’re private messaging service. But what do you do when the other person is ready to set up an actual date where you are going to meet face to face. This is where it begins to get scary for most people. It’s okay, it is a little nerve wracking and exciting all wrapped up in one.
Here are some tips for your online dating service.
1. Always be honest with everything in your profile. You don’t want to start off a relationship with lies, especially if you are looking for a real relationship.
2. Get use to the entire process at your own pace.
Let’s look at some dating advice that will help you to relax and be yourself.
First off if you have trouble with confidence you should first work on that. There are many articles that you can find online to build your confidence. It’s important that you do this because how can anyone think good of you if you don’t even think good of yourself. It’s not possible. Have you ever seen an unconfident guy getting the girls, no right? I am not saying that it never happens, but it’s less likely to happen.
Learning how to keep a conversation going is going to come with practice. There are so many different things that you should and shouldn’t do here. But the most important thing is that you don’t dominate the entire conversation, ask questions about her and let her answer you without interrupting. A woman wants to know that you actually care, and that you are listening to her. It’s okay to joke around, it’s okay to talk about yourself a bit, but don’t tell her everything you want to leave something to talk about on your next date if you plan on having one.
Dating advice is floating around all over the internet and there are many things that you can do to help you become a better date. The key ingredients that you need to enjoy your date is confidence, conversation, and a sense of humor. Every date that you go on is not going to be the best experience it’s important that you just take it with a grain of salt. Personalities don’t always work together and it makes it hard to talk, but if you go into every date thinking that it’s all going to be so easy and it’s going to be great then you are only setting yourself up for a fall. You need to go into the date saying, “It would be nice to find the one, but if I don’t Oh well.” This is the best attitude to keep your confidence high and also your self esteem high too. |
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2007-Sep-28 - Flirting Tips For Men
Flirting is one of the best ways to land a date, but it's not always the easiest thing for every guy out there. Anyone can learn how to effectively flirt. Flirting with a women is all about proper timing with just about everything. You can't tell a joke that is about two minutes after what you have just talked about, then it's just not going to be funny. One of the most important keys to flirting is creativity.
Imagine walking up to a woman that you noticed across the street. You are dying to meet her, but how what are you going to do, what are you going to say? Instead of just admiring her from afar you need to approach her. But you never do, because of the fear of sounding like an idiot. Well let me tell you something, you are an idiot for not walking up to her. You just let her walk on by never to be seen again. You have nothing to lose by approaching a woman and flirting with a little bit.
Let's talk about how you can begin flirting correctly with some these simple to apply flirting tips for men.
When you are first talking walk up to a women there are many things that you can do right but there are also many things that can potentially go seriously wrong. So let's discover the ways that you can win the person over with the proper flirting.
Some of the best ways to begin flirting with a women that you see across the room is by having a strategy. How are you going to begin talking to her? After "Hello, My name is Joe" what are you going to say. You need to know what you are going to say or what you are going to do before you approach any women. Otherwise you may just end up looking like a fool. Here's a tip for you, accidentally bump into her. This is one of the perfect conversational starters, she may just know what you are doing, but she will still fall right into your trap. Here's another very important tip, after you bump into her DO NOT give her one of those ridiculous pick up lines. These don't work and often make you look like a fool. The best form of flirting is being your social self.
Communication is the art of flirting. If you truly want to learn how to flirt and be good at it you need to become much more social. You can't be embarrassed when you are flirting, it just doesn't work. Socialization can be taught. You can start of by going out more and sparking up conversations with random people that you do not know. This is an excellent method to build up your communication skills. The key to good communicating is to not be afraid.
If you understand that there is a chance that you will be rejected then you should have no worries about flirting with any woman. Honestly what is the worst thing that can happen. She walks away, you are never going to see her again, so why not give it a shoot. Listen don't get me wrong I am not saying to go around flirting with every single woman that you see. This is just not right, but if you notice a woman that you really want to meet then go for it.
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2007-Sep-26 - The Nice Guy Syndrome And How To Beat It
I am sure that you have heard been told this at least once in your life by friends. It’s one of the most common statements among most men, both young and old. "If you treat a girl too nice then they won’t want to be with you. If you treat them a little bad now and them, they constantly come back for more." You remember when you were a kid in school, probably even in middle school almost all of the girls always wanted to date the bad boys in the school. Well it’s still kind of true as an adult.
If you are one of those guys who tries to hard with women then you need to listen up and listen very carefully. If you don’t stop being overly nice to the women that you date then there is a really good probability that you won’t find one that will stay around long enough. And I am sure this is not what you want, is it?
It’s true women do like when a man buys them things and know that he is going to be there for her when she needs him to, but there is something else that women love and that is a bit of a challenge. There is a certain code of conduct that you must follow to get rid of that nice guy syndrome once and for all.
It’s not going to be easy to stop being a nice guy, and don’t get me wrong you don’t have to be mean here. You are going to become a man that has a bit more confidence. One of the main reasons that you are so nice is because you feel if you are not overly nice then you will not be desired. This is not true.
Women are not the easiest creatures to understand, you should know this by now. Doesn’t it seem like just when you think you understand them everything seems to change again. Let’s take this for an example, one minute they are asking why is shivery dead. They want you to open doors for them, or pull out their chair for them to sit down, and then here’s the kicker when you do it they are all of a sudden saying that they can open the door for themselves. So which one is it? It’s both, and this is what we need to understand about them. And it’s no different with men. They want a man who is nice and shows that they care, but they don’t want you to be overwhelming nice. A guy who is constantly nice doesn’t have any challenge at all. And this is what women want most of all.
So how can you transform yourself from being the nice guy to the guy that women desire?
It’s very simple you have to offer them a bit of a challenge. Don’t tell everything about you on your first date, leave them wondering what else you are hiding.
Have confidence. Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities that anyone can have it’s very intriguing. So stop trying so hard. You have a lot of things to offer a woman and you just need to believe that. If you don’t think that you do, then how is anyone else ever going to? They won’t. One of the best things that you need to remember when you are trying to present yourself as if you have confidence is to say, "I don’t care what happens." You can’t care, caring is what is going to break you. Remember this and you will begin to get the confidence that you need to transform yourself from the nice guy to a confident guy that the girls can’t wait to see again, and again.
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2007-Sep-19 - Body Language Will Show You How She Feels About You
Everybody expresses themselves with their body, and it’s one of the best indicators to know just what the other person is thinking and feeling. There are many secret signals that she can be giving you and you are not even aware of it. Women are difficult creatures, but they do tell you with their body language exactly what they are feeling, so open your eyes and pay attention.
So let’s take a few minutes to go over these body language secret signals. Because you don’t want to miss out on any one of these signs, because you may just miss your opportunity. It’s not always easy for guys to understand body languages, but if you can - women will appreciate you so much more.
Alright let’s first look at when you approach a woman. Woman usually do not approach a man first, but they do try to get your attention, by staring at you until you catch her and then she will shyly turn and pretend as if she wasn’t staring. Often they will twirl their hair, or play some way with their hair to let you know they are waiting for you to approach them. You are totally in the clear now, so go for it.
Woman love to check out guys, they just don’t make it as obvious as guys do. Women will look at a mans face and then they will look all the way down to your feet and back up to your face. It’s a subtle look but if you are paying close attention you will catch her giving you a vertical scan from top to bottom and back to the top again.
Now for a different scenario you are out on a date with a woman, and both of you seem to be having a good time, and you constantly catch her staring in your direction. Her eyes may even stay fixed on you for a little while, you will even notice that she is staring at your lips as you talk. This message should be clear, and she is definitely into you.
Here’s the same scenario but now she is touching your arm or hands every time that she laughs, and you will probably notice that it’s not as funny as she is making it out to be. Those gentle brushes on your hands, arm or even your leg are a clear indication that she is into you and is basically giving you the go ahead to get a bit closer. Don’t move to fast on her, you may scare her off.
Women are unusual creatures and the need very close attention to what they are thinking, because they never really say what they are feeling. Don’t get me wrong you may just find one that is very expressive, but there are very few and far in between. If you pay close attention to a woman’s body language then you will know exactly what they are feeling and you will quickly know if you have the chance to kiss her or if you are going to have the chance for a future date.
It’s easy to build attraction and it’s important that you work carefully towards intimacy. A woman doesn’t want to feel as if that is all you are interested in, but they also don’t want to feel as if you are not interested in them in that way either. |
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2007-Sep-14 - Dating: It's All New
I find this article on dating at The Modern Man really interesting. Dan Bacon - The CEO of The Modern Man - talks about dating as being a new concept.
I can only imagine how different it would have been 300 or 3,000 years ago, when you only had a local tribe or local community to choose from. These days, when it comes to dating, we have millions of people to choose from. The question is: Who do you choose? |
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2007-Sep-11 - Discover How To Meet A Women
It’s hard to meet women and it’s even harder to meet the woman of your dreams, but it’s not impossible. There are women everywhere. It’s all about how you feel about yourself that makes the difference in meeting women and walking past them. How on earth do you expect to meet someone special if you don’t think that you deserve anyone? You can’t, it’s just not going to happen. Another very important thing you must have is conversation.
So one of the most important things to meeting a woman is to show your confidence. If you think you can get the girl then your chances are higher at actually getting her. You need to believe that you have something to offer someone. Having confidence is the key to getting a woman. Gaining the confidence to approach women is not going to happen over night, but you can take it step by step.
So, can any guy how to approach women?
Definitely. You will need it to walk up to a woman and start a conversation. You can start with just talking to people out on the street while walking, by saying "Hello" and "How are you doing?". You can then begin to work your way up to talking to the store clerk as you are checking. This is a great way to learn how to feel comfortable talking with people.
Let’s look at some of the different places that you can meet women. The main places that you should stay away from when you are trying to meet women. Bars are not a great place to meet women, at least not the woman that you will spend the rest of your life with. Don’t get me wrong there is still a chance but it’s a small chance.
The best places to meet a woman with your new found confidence is in natural places such as a bookstore, the mall, and even the grocery store. Women are everywhere and you just need to approach them.
Other places that you can meet women is online with internet dating sites, and myspace. What’s great about these services is that you can truly find someone that meets your personality. You can automatically know if you are both interested in the same things, which makes for a much better conversation. Initiating a conversation is hard especially when you don’t really know if you have anything in common. Online dating services allow you to email a person back and forth allowing you to get to know them a little better. So if you are still lacking the confidence that you need this will help you to gain a bit while trying to get to know someone better. I love email because it allows you to be you, because the nervousness is not there.
One of the best things to remember when you are trying to meet women is that you should always be yourself with much more confidence. Everyone has something to offer somebody, and even if you don’t know what that is right now you will figure it out.
Here are some tips when you find the confidence to walk up to a woman and begin talking with them.
1. Women love a good sense of humor.
2. Always follow up, don’t tell everything on the first day. You need to leave things to talk about on your next day. That is of course if you plan on having a second date.
3. It’s also important that you do not dominate the entire conversation. This is not the way to make a woman feel nice. Ask her questions and enquire about her life and what she likes and doesn’t like.
If you follow these guidelines you will have no problem getting women and keeping the one that you are most interested in.
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2007-Sep-3 - Pick Up Artist or Natural?
When I first starting learning how to attract women, I thought that I had to become a pick up artist. Well, at least that is what all the seduction sites were saying.
Eventually, I stumbled across The Modern Man. They are three guys who have different stories and backgrounds, in terms of their success (or lack of success with women).
Dan: Was a typical nice guy who was fairly shy in social situations. He always used to make boring conversation with women, and didn't know how to maintain a woman's interest.
Ben: Was always a confident guy, but had no idea how to get with women.
Stu: Was a always a natural with women.
By the time that they all met each other, they were all amazingly good with women and decided to set up The Modern Man to help other guys. There was only one condition:
What they taught had to be based on integrity and being a confident, social guy - rather than a bunch of pick up artist tricks that are based on insecurity and manipulation.
Since 2005, they have been teaching their 'natural' style of pick up to men all across the world. Each weekend, they actually run 'Lifestyle Courses' (otherwise known as pick up artist bootcamps, in the seduction community).
Dan, Ben and Stu approach women in front of the clients, teach them how it's done and then get them doing the same. Apparently, even guys who totally suck with women end up walking away with phone numbers or kisses.
Personally, I find their natural approach better than the pick up artist trickery. At the end of the day, you want women to like/love you for YOU, rather than for a bunch of pick up artist tricks.
The Modern Man can show you exactly how to achieve that. Check out some free articles from them here:
Flirting tips
How to become an alpha male
How to be cocky and funny |
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